Confronted my better half about my suspicions. He admitted and decided to work with the wedding (later on he admitted he had contacted her afterward). 2 months later on i came across a mail that is suspicious an other woman. Confronted her in an ag e mail. Lies, lies after which more lies. Confronted my hubby. He accused me personally of being paranoid. (later I then found out that that they had discussed what things to tell me and still had contact from then on) Contactet woman nr. 1 and asked her about their EA. Lies, lies after which a few more lies. half a year later on: Got a mail from girl nr. 2`s spouse, confronted my better half.